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Book: The Midnight Library

It is one of the books that blown my mind. It's very well written and would probably relate with a lot of people who are in their journey to find themselves.  So many people are talking about it but I did not buy it until a few months ago where I read the preview on the first pages. Easy for me to see if I want to buy the book or not. When the first pages hook me right away, I don't need to think twice. This book is one of them.  This contains spoiler of course.  Nora, the main character, like many of us, fall into depression and decided to kill herself. But she's not dead right away. She went into a kind of limbo between life and death. In that library she met a librarian, this librarian is a kind of a guide. Our guide that probably tasked when we were born.    The librarian shows her lives that she could have had if she wants to. She is so depressed and thinks that no life will makes her happy enough to live it. I can totally understand her state. I was there....

How are you?

 
Sanur

Hello there! It's been awhile. I am so occupied here (with what? lol). Let's catch up on some things.

So how are you? Alles goed? I almost finish my Dutch lesson level 1. I can make a complete sentence now so I am happy that FINALLY!!! At least now I can say more than just Ik hou van jou 😂 I definitely will continue my lesson and thinking about taking French after that 😇

I've been working with someone from Canada, remotely. And I am taking a branding course that really interesting for me. So every time I walk into some shops or see some branding things I would be like "Hmm is that true that you're eco friendly or it is just greenwashing? Ah I know you use this to cover your previous fail branding about that issue!" 😂 On a serious note, I am really interested with this branding stuff and would love to share some when I finish. I will only share what I need to share 😋

I am little bit avoiding login into my social media accounts although it is not easy to do that I still need to log into it to catch up some news. The news lately making me so stressful that make me feel exhausted and tired even siomay and es kopi can't fix my mood. That's a serious thing when foods can't fix me. So I decided to skip for some days. Then when it got little bit chill, my husband sent me some news that I knew since last week and started to talk about it. Oh boy. That was intense.

  
Let's chill. Go get some ice cream

I don't want to talk about the protest and everything happened for the last couple of week, but I am so concerned about people who doesn't know about marital rape. Where almost everybody think that marital rape is okay. Ok we're talking about the real rape where there are no consent from one side. Not the "rape" term as in BDSM. No women, you're allowed to say no if you are tired or not in the mood or sick or anything to your husband. (and vice versa). It is not sinful. Align your logic to your holy book, and you'll find the match.

Oh catching up some about these religious thing pressure, I am un-followed by some friends that finds me annoying because I am criticizing too much about religion and thought that I am convert. They can't handle my guts. Ah they love me, talked about me behind my back. So lovely 😊

Three months living in Bali, make me happy. I feel that I found myself (more) and really enjoying it. When people asked, "Does it feel like everyday is sunday in Bali?" I can say yes to that 😊 it is so enjoyable and liberating living in a place where there is nobody tell you what to do.

 
Seminyak

So I think that's it. I will write more soon. Have a good day everybody 😉

Note: due to our complicated situation lately make the stock market dropping down. It is a good time to buy some stock. Go get some stock pals!

Comments

  1. Ik ben het met je eens over verkrachting binnen het huwelijk -- malang.heritage

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  2. GELLAATOOOOOOO AMPOOOON :D

    Mendengar judul how are you, saya langsung mikirnya ke scooby do by do.

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    1. Lah refleks malah langsung nyanyi nih gw liat scooby do ahahaha

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